i have an off topic question Why are so many people in the other forums so rude? I don't post enough for them to direct it at me but when I read some of the stuff I am so confused. Most people here are nice but the other forums are crazy..

partly because we're just nicer people and partly because we've developed a greater sense of responsibility towards each other (comes in handy when you've got someone tied up).

oooo tie me up pls?? =)

you don't even know me I could be some deranged wildman. (that's part of the appeal, isn't it?)

you know it is... I think i like that sense of danger...is that wrong?? *blushez* hehee

pssst..... is this you? Oooo la la!

hehee ....yessir' big grin..

I thought so..... now let's get back to that sense of danger..... How far would you go with someone you just met? Would you let me tie you up? Spank you like that? It's all about limits, right? Were are yours? Do you even know?

i have to find my limits still... im pretty new to the whole kink scene...w the xception of blindfolds and being tied up =]

not directed at me, but... and bearing in mind that I don't play with ANYONE except my husband, I would not let anyone I didn't trust completely tie me up -- that would be a hard limit. Pretty much everything else you can get away from if the partner is doing too much, scaring you, or hurting you. But being tied up, even for something supposedly simple/light, can turn dangerous. If the other person ignores a safe word--you have no way to enforce your wishes. Sensory deprivation (blindfolds, ear plugs, etc.) would probably be next on the list, because then I wouldn't KNOW when to run. Now, I know that this is the big turnon for a lot of people--but not without the trust.

I think for the most part, we like eachother here. We talk about sensitive issues which require us all to be a bit more understanding and supportive. Lots of us are happy in our lives, so we don't feel the need to argue or be petty with eachother. Maybe?

It's because we fuck more often. Orgasm relieves stress. It releases endorphins. Endorphins make you happy. Happy people are less likely to be rude. So, kinksters are nicer people!

It all boils down to respect and maturity We respect each other here, and most of us are mature most of the time, except when we're not lol....then we are either goofballs or assholes :-)

u are so wise, SUBlime

hoot! hoot! lol.

that's what i was thinking now you guys have me thinking about being tied up...so i think i will go enjoy some of that. Have a great night!

night and kinky dreams to you!

and also to you

The other forums I hang out in don't have rude people... also they're very different from thisin that people discuss the topic of the forum. I mean, in the Apple forum, people talk about Apple computers or products. Here, people who like kink or bdsm just say hello to each other and ask about each other's day. You're certainly allowed to talk about kink, but it's not required and whole pages will go by that are just greetings. In the Apple forum, nowould just top post to say "Hi, I'm here!" or "Well, gotta be going now!" and wait for x other people to just save and say "hi" or "bye." So to me, this is a very unusual forum in that regard. The people here are nice and supportive, that's definitely true, but that's not unique to this forum. Some other ones are really nice too--though I agree with you too that some are not!

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