the best night the best night of my life was when my partner made it a me night. it was all about my pleasure, what i wanted/needed. we had sex for 5 hours, but he was giving me oral for about half of that time. i came more than 20 times. the idea that it was about me was a little unnerving, as i am a giver not reciever. but he would gently force me to accept his dotings, and afterwards i did not complain!

sounds a lot like my night last night. I didn't get to sleep until 5:30 this morning :)

wow, lucky you. that happened last april, i wish it would happen again.

I was not expecting it to last so long last night, but I am so glad it did. I am really sore this morning, but I like it that way. :)

yeah i love being sore from sex

I love those though i have to say I'm taker as well as a giver :) wow, 20 orgasms, I'm out likea light after 8 at most..

i learned that night to take a little more yes my legs were like jello the next day. it felt good to be exhausted from sex al

Jello legs You gotta love dedicated partner :)

yes too bad i dont have now

Too bad I can relate...

yes my boyfriend sucks

its bad, : ) sex is about him, and only him. unless he feels bad for being a dick to me, then it is pretty good.

Terrible How do some of us guys think that's ok?

I agree My hubby was raised right. He takes good care of me. And in return, I take good care of him.

forgive me for asking but why are you together? is he conciderate in other aspects of your life? its he an interesting companion? you know its often better to be alon with your toys, then with someone who sucks

forgive me too I always wonder the same thing, and usually it's the pretty girls that put up with the most!?

ive been told he even became physical with me last jan. and i stayed. he did it again in oct.

you need to get out. Physical abuse is not ok unless it is with complete permission in a controlled setting. I am sure you already know this though.

no, he is none of those i guess its cause i hate being al we both live with a mutual friend, and have been techniy broken up since oct. we do visit each others rooms, but i cant seem to let go of the idea he will someday grow up and be the man i want him to be.

change can happen But a person must really want to change. I do not mean to put speak out against anyone’s relationship but if he did not change after you broke up you will not be a catalyst for change. For you own safety as he has already been physical you should move out. It is safer and much healthier. I may have overstepped a line by speaking out but I have very strong opinions about things like that. I have said my say though and will drop it now

thank you i do apprecaite it. funny thing is, he will be themoving, not me. its my place, lol.

To the curb! I have a sister with the same problem... I'll be nice to him for a few days still.

I'd kick him out with my boot still in his ass! :)

good idea As long as you're not in danger...get as much out of him as you can and then leave him :)

he won't change. They almost never do, and you finally figure it out after you've wasted so much time. I used to be in a relationship like that for x years. The only thing he ever brought to my life was bondage. I had never tried it before him. But, other than that, he was a big mistake for me.

he has opened so many doors i had never tried anyhting besides missionary before him. anal, bondage, fellatio, cunnilingus, toys, masturbation. these all happened with him.

oh if i could it will be a few months, but i will. our garage burned and most of our stuff got soot stained. the house will take x mos. to re finish. so until then, we are living in a rental, and i would not be completely done with him if i were to leave.

I thought you had oral with a different partner - thethat had sex with you for x hours, all about you - you know that post that started this thread? hmmm, I smell something fishy here...

he was a fling i was a bad girl and had a fling, during our first 'breakup/makeup' and that is when dreamy heartthrob entered the picture.

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